Someone who’s very affectionate and who expresses their affection towards me. I love holding hands, cuddling, hugging, and someone affectionately holding my face and kissing me. That’s what I’ve come to realise as some of my needs. It must be the physical affection that I was deprived of since childhood that makes me crave for it, but if I ever have a partner again, this is something that I want/need.
More than anything, I want to be with a kind, caring, affectionate and compassionate person who demonstrates his feelings towards me, in some words and a lot of actions. There used to a time when intelligence attracted me but now, I’m more into kind people. Intelligent people still attract me but I often found out that most brainy people are arrogant. I later on realised that my type is emotionally intelligent, not just worldly intelligent who can earn money. It’s heart over brain for me and I heart feelings now 🫀🥴.
This is no random post, this is something that I have always thought about on what I want or need from a partner. I just never had this level of clarity.
I now know that money, I can earn as much as I need and I can live with whatever I have without any regrets. And I’m getting there about not considering the physical attributes as some priority, but the qualities mentioned earlier, are a must and there’s no compromise there.
I’m just okay and good being on my own, living by myself and loving myself as much as I need, but if I ever find someone attractive enough to share this life with or carve some life together, then this would be my most important criteria.
Saying again, this is just my own monologue, something clicked in my head while doing something and realised that I’ll lose this if I didn’t pen it down now. I wanted to create a draft of it, but somehow I’m now convinced that this could be a post as well. So, that’s it 👻🤍.
I hope you’re all doing well and surviving this life in whichever way you can. Whatever the situation is, just take a breathe and live this minute, we can think about the next minute when we get there.. just live this minute in peace. That’s how I’m surviving.
Love, S
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