Whatever has happened, has happened. There is nothing that I can do to change any of what’s done.
I cannot change how I led my school life.
I cannot change what I choose to study after school.
I cannot change how I choose to study while at college.
I cannot change how I forced myself to love someone when I clearly wasn’t in love.
I cannot change how I lived my life after college.
I cannot change how I ended up getting married to someone I never connected with.
I cannot change how I behaved while I was married.
I cannot change how the marriage ended (technically, yet to end).
I, more certainly cannot change how I ended up depressed, sad, confused, lost and miserable, after what was supposed to be the best decision I have ever taken.
I cannot change how people behave or what people think of me and my family.
I cannot change how my family thinks of me or how sad I make them feel.
Sometimes, there is nothing one can do about certain things. They cannot be changed. But one can always change how they let these things affect them. One can always decide to accept it for whatever it is and find peace in chaos. The past cannot be changed and the future cannot be predicted. It is only the present we have. There is no point in sulking about the past or worrying about the future. Live this day, today, to the fullest. As selfish as it may sound, today, love yourself to the fullest. Do everything that makes you happy today. And in all that, somewhere you’ll find peace. The way you treat your today makes a world of difference on your tomorrow. Be you, and Choose you, Over everything and everyone. Stop worrying about everything that’s either in the past or in the future. Just make the best of what you can today and see how it works wonders for tomorrow. 🙂